LIFE CAN BEGIN AT 60

-It is all in your hands! 
Many people feel unhappy, health-wise and security-wise, after 60 years of age
owing to the diminishing importance given to them and their opinion. But it need
not be so, if only we understand the basic principles of life and follow them
scrupulously. Here are ten mantras to age gracefully and make life after
retirement pleasant.

1. Never say 'I am aged': There are three ages, chronological, biological,and
 psychological. The first is calculated based on our date of birth; the second is
determined by the health conditions and the third is how old you feel you are
While we don't have control over the first, we can take care of our health with
good diet, exercise and a cheerful attitude. A positive attitude and optimistic
thinking can reverse the third age.

2. Health is wealth: If you really love your kith and kin, taking care of your
health should be your priority. Thus, you will not be a burden to them.
Have an annual health check-up and take the prescribed medicines regularly. Do take health insurance cover.

3. Money is important: Money is essential for meeting the basic necessities of
life, keeping good health and earning family respect and security. Don't spend
beyond your means even for your children. You have lived for them all through
and it is time you enjoyed a harmonious life with your spouse. If your children
are grateful and they take care of you, you are blessed. But never take it for granted.

4. Relaxation and recreation: The most relaxing and recreating forces are a
healthy religious attitude, good sleep, music and laughter. Have faith in God,
learn to sleep well, love good music and see the funny side of life.

5. Time is precious: It is almost like holding a horse's reins. When they are in
your hands, you can control them. Imagine that everyday you are born again.
Yesterday is a cancelled cheque. Tomorrow is a promissory note. Today is
ready cash - use it profitably. Live this moment.

6. Change is the only permanent thing: We should accept change - it is
inevitable. The only way to make sense out of change is to join the dance.
Change has brought about many pleasant things. We should be happy that our
children are blessed.

7. Enlightened selfishness: All of us are basically selfish. Whatever we do, we
expect something in return. We should definitely be grateful to those who stood
by us. But our focus should be on the internal satisfaction and happiness we
derive by doing good to others, without expecting anything in return.

8. Forget and forgive: Don't be bothered too much about others' mistakes.
We are not spiritual enough to show our other cheek when we are slapped in one.
But for the sake of our own health and happiness, let us forgive and forget them.
Otherwise, we will be only increasing our BP.

9. Everything has a purpose: Take life as it comes. Accept yourself as you are
and also accept others for what they are. Everybody is unique and right in his own way.

10. Overcome the fear of death: We all know that one day we have to leave this
world. Still we are afraid of death. We think that our spouse and children will
be unable to withstand our loss. But the truth is no one is going to die for
you; they may be depressed for some time. Time heals everything and they will carry on.

S. Ramachandran - Courtesy The Hindu